Have you already read any of your most anticipated Have you already read any of your most anticipated books this year? 😍

I felt like I was counting down the days to Oathbound and Sunrise on the Reaping—and both of them definitely lived up to my expectations (best feeling ever)! 🙌🏼

Now to fully immerse myself in some of my fantasy ARCs and continue listening to EmHen’s latest! 🤎

Were any of these on your 2025 TBR? 📚

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Who are some of your favorite book siblings? 📖 Who are some of your favorite book siblings? 📖

I really love getting the chance to see a great sibling dynamic in a book—especially in fantasy, and *especially especially* if they work together! 🤝🏼

Unseelie had the most interesting twins in it and I loved seeing their similarities, their differences, and how they used both throughout the story! 🤎

Have you read this one yet? ✨

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I tend not to stray very far from my comfort zone of fantasy and fluffy romance, but I recently read WE’LL PRESCRIBE YOU A CAT, a translated novel about a magical mental health clinic that loans out cats to their patients. 🐈 It was absolutely fantastic in every way and became my first 5-star read of the year (outside of my rereads). 🙌🏼 
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I know they say “don’t judge a book by its cover,” but let’s be real… we all do it! 😂 When I saw the cover for The Lovers, I was instantly obsessed—and then I read the synopsis! I knew I needed it in my life right away, and I wasn’t disappointed. 🤎
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Rebekah’s storytelling was fantastic and I can’t wait to read her upcoming book, The Sun and the Moon, when it comes out in August! 📖
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Typically, I’m someone who flies through series and prioritizes finishing them as soon as I possibly can. However, over the last few years, I’ve done a poor job completing all of the series I start, so I’m trying to make it a goal to finish them up! 👏🏼
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Some series that I’ve got on my list to finish:
📖 Girls of Paper and Fire
📖 Legacy of Orïsha (especially with the adaptation news!)
📖 Beasts of Prey
📖 The Inheritance Cycle
📖 The Atlas
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FIVE STANDALONE BOOKS:
📖 The Nature of Witches
📖 The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue
📖 The Midnight Library
📖 The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo
📖 Echo North
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📚 Shadow and Bone
📚 Shades of Magic
📚 The Prison Healer
📚 The All Souls Trilogy
📚 Bright Falls
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One of my favorite series to reread is SHADES OF MAGIC. Nothing gets me quite as excited and emotional as those opening words: “Kell wore a very peculiar coat…” 🙌🏼 AH! Just writing that makes me anxious to pick up this comfort series again this year. 🙈
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Lifestyle, Self Care · July 15, 2024

How to Reduce Anxiety When You’re Panicking

This post was originally published in March 2020. It has been revised and republished with the best self-care exercises that reduce anxiety when you’re panicking.

If you’re someone who already struggles with anxiety, chances are that in the past few years it’s been extra hard not to panic. I understand. That’s why I’ve put together this beneficial list of 15 self-care exercises you can practice to reduce that stress.

Life can feel extra scary sometimes. There are days I just want to hide from my phone (and all the news it carries) and curl into a ball. However, as a blogger, the last thing I can do is avoid social media, so I’ve found other ways to cope with my panic. Some of these may seem simple or even childlike, but I urge you to open your mind. Now isn’t the time to be haughty or particular about self-care. In fact, it’s the time to embrace any sense of juvenile wonder and excitement, focus on the special little moments, and if you’re blessed to be with friends and family that make you feel safe – cherish that!

I have medically diagnosed anxiety, along with clinical depression and bipolar I disorder. I also have a chronic gastrointestinal disease. So I find myself leaning towards manic hysteria and panic on a regular basis. It can be really difficult to refocus and regularly utilize self-care exercises, but when I do, I notice a massive improvement in my overall demeanor and mood. These tried and true tips will help you too, no matter what level of anxiety you may be facing.

Practical Self-Care Exercises to Reduce Anxiety

I am clearly not a medical professional, nor do I claim to be any kind of expert on anxiety reduction. However, I do want to provide resources for anyone looking to incorporate more self-care into their daily lives. These are just a few of the ways I manage my anxiety. I also highly recommend seeking professional help, because you never know the positive impact it could have on your life!

Blow Bubbles

Whenever I’m feeling anxious, I bring out a little jar of bubbles and watch them pop slowly. I see how big I can make them, or just poke them to hear the audible “pop!” Don’t have any bubbles on hand? Squeeze your dish soap container and watch as the tiny bubbles fly around the kitchen.

sour candy

This was something I learned from a therapist years ago, and now it’s a go-to whenever I’m experiencing a panic attack or severe anxiety of any kind. I find the sourest candy I can handle (my favorites are the lemon Warheads or Toxic Waste – so sour) and once it lands on my tongue, I focus only on how sour it is until the sour sensation goes away. It takes your mind off your anxiety, even if it’s just for a few minutes.

drink red wine

Not in excess, mind you. Intoxication has never been a good solution to stress, as much as it can be tempting. However, red wine can soothe and calm, and even promote better sleep, but once you’ve hit tipsy, it’s not going to affect you in the same positive manner. In small doses (like one glass after dinner), red wine can reduce that anxious feeling – and it even aids in digestion.

snuggle a pet

I’ve always been a kitty person. For over eight years, my sweet companion, Luna, kept me company better than anyone else and helped soothe me during stressful times. Now, my precious calico, Nona, loves to curl up on my lap, and it helps bring me back to earth. Sometimes just petting her head or scratching her chin and hearing her purr was incredibly calming to me. Whether it’s your cat, dog, hamster, bird, etc. just give them a little extra love and watch them give it back to you. If you don’t have a pet at home, consider visiting a nearby shelter!

take a steam shower

Turn your shower on super hot, close the bathroom door, and walk away. Come back 5 minutes later to a free sauna. Add a few drops of essential oils like lavender or eucalyptus and peppermint for a truly relaxing shower. You might want to turn the heat down a bit once you actually get into the water, or you can just sit on the floor of the bathroom and breathe in the steam.

read a fictional book

May I suggest a romantic comedy or fantasy novel? This is a great way to take your mind off of “real life” and escape into a story. It’s also beneficial for your mind, versus binge-watching a television show. Read before bed and you’ll find yourself sleeping better too! Reading is the number one way I relieve stress.

online shop (for fun)

Rather than adding stress by buying groceries or purchasing necessities, how about shopping for your wardrobe? Or maybe there’s a new piece of decor or seasonal decoration you’ve been looking at! Indulge in a little retail therapy! Set a budget and then enjoy the “frivolity” of adding new things to your life! This kind of distraction can be so helpful!

paint your nails

You don’t need to spend an arm and a leg at the salon. Instead, get your own drying light and treat yourself to an at-home manicure. You get extra points if you clip your cuticles, apply vitamin oils, and give yourself a hand massage with your favorite lotion. I try to do this at least once a month. I’ll turn on a k-drama or listen to an audiobook and just paint away.

bake

I often enjoy waking up early on a weekend morning and turning on some light jazz to listen to while I bake a coffee cake, molasses cookies, or cappuccino muffins. It’s also fun to try new recipes, especially when you get creative with the ingredients you already have in your home! Baking is a great way to completely immerse your mind in a task – and the best part? You have something delicious to enjoy after all your hard work is complete.

play a board game

I really enjoy playing board games and have even attended a routine game night with friends in the past. It’s a great way to de-stress and just have fun. If you’re anxious about spending time with a large group, here is one of my favorite games that’s suited to two players!

go on a nature walk

Being out in nature is healing in so many ways. If you can, get outside and just go for a walk. It can be at your favorite park or just around your neighborhood. Now that I live in the country, you can almost guarantee that first thing in the morning, I’ll be outside walking up and down my long driveway with a mug of steaming hot coffee. Getting that sunshine is the best, especially during the cooler seasons.

face mask

Face masks solve everything, right? I mean – at least they help your skin! And who says you need to wait for “self-care Sunday” to pour that glass of red wine I mentioned before and slap on a face mask? My favorite mask of all time is this one and I’ve been using it religiously for years. I notice my skin purging all the ick the next day, but then my pores shrink and my skin is smoother and clearer! It’s a great feeling.

crank up some throwback jams and dance

I will often look up 90s or 00s playlists on Spotify and belt my favorite hits from middle and high school at the top of my lungs. I’ll dance and sing while simultaneously reminiscing the good times. Singing and dancing increase the production of serotonin (the happy hormone) and literally just makes you feel better! This can be equally enjoyable on a car ride (just make sure your dance moves aren’t causing you to drive carelessly).

at-home fitness

If you’re spooked by the gym, how about looking up a yoga routine on YouTube and practicing at home? I spent an entire year doing yoga every single day and it made a massive difference in every area of my life. I highly recommend it – even if you think that yoga isn’t for you. If you want some extra cardio, try dancing it out with this “feel good” option.

Learn to make a new drink

Coffee lover? How about experimenting with different syrups or espressos or even iced versus hot? It’s fun to create new and unique beverages to enjoy by yourself or with a loved one. If you’re not a huge fan of coffee but enjoy warm and yummy drinks, give spiced mocha a try. Maybe mixology is more your thing! Get on Pinterest and search for some new alcoholic bevs to try out. I love creating fun, fandom-inspired cocktails with my friends.

Meditate

I’ve said it a million times, and I won’t quit saying it until everyone has this app on their phone: Headspace is, hands down, the best meditation app there is. I used it for over 10 years, and it quite literally saved my life more than once. It’s 100% worth paying for the subscription, and there are hundreds (if not thousands) of guided and unguided meditations to practice. You can even set it up to listen to ASMR story-telling that helps you fall asleep. I especially appreciate these because it helps turn my brain off at night!


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Lindsey
4 years ago

I love this! I’m definitely finding that my anxiety is up and sometimes it’s hard to break out of it once it takes hold. I love these ideas but my favourite has to be blowing bubbles – so simple and who doesn’t love blowing bubbles? Great post!

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Rachael
4 years ago

This is such a great post! As someone who struggles with anxiety regularly, nothing makes me feel better than reading my book and having a hot shower xx

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Lizzie
4 years ago

These are great tips! Last year was hard for me too for so many reasons but being stuck inside for the majority of my time in a tiny apartment really wore down my mental health. Since we moved into a place with more space and an actual backyard, I’ve been doing much better. But now, my husband is having a ton of health issues and he could definitely use some simple ways to de-stress. Sharing this post with him <3

Lizzie
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A Cup of Wonderland
4 years ago

A really great post and so many ways to handle anxiety that I didn’t realise that I was already doing. I love sour candy and red wine (not together mind) and I regularly do jumping jacks to help decompress and get rid of the nervous energy.

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Linda
4 years ago

Fantastic list! I love the sour candy trick and must try. My very anxious kiddo would love it, too. Admittedly, my favorite escape / reset is reading and I’ve been wanting to do nothing but that for several days now…think my psyche is telling me something. Hmm.

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Lisa
4 years ago

I’m very lucky not so suffer from anxiety but even so the pandemic and home school have been testing my limits over the last 12 months. I love all your tips, some I’d never considered before. Time spent in my garden is where I feel most serene – but you can bet I’ll be taking out my daughter’s bubble blowing kit this weekend, that’s a fab suggestion! x

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Cora @ TeaPartyPrincess
4 years ago

I love the things you’ve shared here. I was diagnosed with severe anxiety last year and have been trying to work out what works for me.
I particularly love a hot bath, a face mask, a glass of wine, and a book. Although my nephew has some stim toys which are incredible at helping me focus, I could sit for hours with the popper.
Cora | https://www.teapartyprincess.co.uk/

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Carrington | Chaos and Coffee
4 years ago

This is a great post! I love these self care tips as well, I’ve been feeling a lot more anxious in general lately, so I’m definitely going to try some of these tips. Xx.

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Ruth| Ruthiee loves Glamour
4 years ago

This is a much needed post. I agree with the fact that the pandemic sent us into panic mode and those who were already down with anxiety before the pandemic had it way worse. I developed a little bit of anxiety during the pandemic which I am finding my way out of but there have been times when it hit a little harder. In times like that, it can be really difficult to break out and these are amazing ways to distract yourself for some time and just relax. My favourite is the face mask. I love a good face mask. I mean who doesn’t haha! I also love the idea of going on a nature walk (I find nature walks so amazing and refreshing. They give this extreme peace of mind). I also love the idea of meditating, a steam shower and painting your nails! Lovely post x!

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Alice Spake
4 years ago

These are so helpful, I feel really on edge at the mo and take stock and having a hit shower or disappearing with a book for an hour has definitely helped xx

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Neely Moldovan
4 years ago

I love these ideas and they are so important. I have a lot of anxiety and I have had to find some good coping mechanisms.

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Holly Wood
4 years ago

Wine/beer or fitness are my go to things when I need to chill out or relax. Both used at very different times of the day (of course!).

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Lucy
4 years ago

I love these self care exercises, I love the ideas of going for a walk and drinking wine, that’s something I’m always for! x

Lucy | http://www.lucymary.co.uk

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Kelly Diane
4 years ago

This is such a helpful post. I’ve been struggling with anxiety for the last year. I’m definitely going to try some of the exercises you’ve mentioned.

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Maria Koss
4 years ago

Those are some great exercises. I haven’t even heard of some of them. Sour candy, that sounds genius! I find what really helps me is a good walk, a long bath or discussing my concerns with my husband.

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mia
4 years ago

These are all wonderful tips. I never used to struggle with anxiety, but with the pandemic it’s really been flaring up. I’ll try some of these! xx

mia // https://beautiful-inspiring-creative-life.com/

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Laura Leigh
4 years ago

I honestly hadn’t heard of so many of these! While I don’t suffer too much from anxiety – just little bouts here and there, this was very informative and I enjoyed reading/learning more. Thank you for sharing girl friend!

xo Laura Leigh
https://louellareese.com

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Ekta
4 years ago

This is such a helpful post considering how pandemic has limited our lives. I really love to go for a natural walk idea. It’s good for us who are locked in our homes.

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Lauren
4 years ago

These are some great suggestions to help you combat with anxiety. I live with anxiety and it can be overwhelming sometimes. Thank you for sharing your suggestions.

Lauren bournemouthgirl.com

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Jennifer Prince
4 years ago

Snuggle a pet or do a face mask? Yes, please! But what I really want to have a convo about is that sticky bun. It looks SO AMAZING!!! It is locally made in Richmond?? If so, I’ve got to get one next time I’m in town. Yum!!

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Stephanie Whitman
4 years ago
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It was from a cafe in Charlottesville that I visited on my birthday last year 🙂

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Jolayne
4 years ago

Some great ideas that I can share with my daughter. She would especially love the sour candy idea.

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Marissa
4 years ago

A steam shower definitely helps me when I’m stressed! Or wine and a bath. Love these ideas! Thanks for sharing

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Stephani
4 years ago

These are great tips and ideas on reducing anxiety! Long steam hot showers are my
Favorite!

Xo, Steph

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Ashley@AttemptsAtDomestication
4 years ago

These are excellent tips! I bought sour candy to try the next time I have a really anxious episode. I definitely dove back into reading Fantasy this past year as a way to cope.

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Anna English
4 years ago

This is such a great list of recs! I typically will go for a run or try and journal when I start to feel super anxious.

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Greta
4 years ago

My anxiety has gotten worse over the past year. Meditation and yoga have definitely been helping with my intentional breathing.

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Jenny in Neverland
4 years ago

Great tips here. I used to have medically diagnosed anxiety (which I don’t anymore yay!) and drinking water used to really help me. I still carry water with me everywhere I go because I find it such a comfort x

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Lovely
4 years ago

Informative post! Blowing bubbles and eating a sour candy are brilliant suggestions! Thanks for sharing!
xoxo
Lovely
http://www.mynameislovely.com

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Megan Elliott
4 years ago

These are such great tips. I remember reading the original version of this post last year and being so intrigued by the sour candy idea! It makes a lot of sense and sounds like it would really help take the focus off of an intense moment. I definitely use a lot of these as self-care practices: face masks, steamy shower, board games, and baking (well, cooking for me) are all incredibly calming.

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Annie
4 years ago

These are such amazing tips, I love the steam shower one in particular, I’d never thought to do that ever, let alone when I’m in a bad mood. Thank you for such a great list!

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Have you already read any of your most anticipated Have you already read any of your most anticipated books this year? 😍

I felt like I was counting down the days to Oathbound and Sunrise on the Reaping—and both of them definitely lived up to my expectations (best feeling ever)! 🙌🏼

Now to fully immerse myself in some of my fantasy ARCs and continue listening to EmHen’s latest! 🤎

Were any of these on your 2025 TBR? 📚

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Who are some of your favorite book siblings? 📖 Who are some of your favorite book siblings? 📖

I really love getting the chance to see a great sibling dynamic in a book—especially in fantasy, and *especially especially* if they work together! 🤝🏼

Unseelie had the most interesting twins in it and I loved seeing their similarities, their differences, and how they used both throughout the story! 🤎

Have you read this one yet? ✨

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Have any books taken you by surprise lately, and i Have any books taken you by surprise lately, and if so, which ones? 😳
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I tend not to stray very far from my comfort zone of fantasy and fluffy romance, but I recently read WE’LL PRESCRIBE YOU A CAT, a translated novel about a magical mental health clinic that loans out cats to their patients. 🐈 It was absolutely fantastic in every way and became my first 5-star read of the year (outside of my rereads). 🙌🏼 
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Magical realism has always been a favorite genre of mine, but I usually struggle a lot with translated books. 😅 It was such a treat to immerse myself in this story and I can’t wait to read the sequel soon! 📖
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What was your last 5-star read? ⭐️ 
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Did you discover any new (or new-to-you) authors i Did you discover any new (or new-to-you) authors in the past year? ☕️
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I know they say “don’t judge a book by its cover,” but let’s be real… we all do it! 😂 When I saw the cover for The Lovers, I was instantly obsessed—and then I read the synopsis! I knew I needed it in my life right away, and I wasn’t disappointed. 🤎
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This book is full of self-discovery, sapphic sweetness, and some truly hilarious moments that had me laughing til my stomach hurt. 🙌🏼 I loved every minute of it and about burst into tears when @berkleypub sent me a copy! 🥹
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Rebekah’s storytelling was fantastic and I can’t wait to read her upcoming book, The Sun and the Moon, when it comes out in August! 📖
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Is this a title you’ve picked up or added to your TBR? 📚
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Are there any series you’re hoping to finish thi Are there any series you’re hoping to finish this year? 📚
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Typically, I’m someone who flies through series and prioritizes finishing them as soon as I possibly can. However, over the last few years, I’ve done a poor job completing all of the series I start, so I’m trying to make it a goal to finish them up! 👏🏼
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Some series that I’ve got on my list to finish:
📖 Girls of Paper and Fire
📖 Legacy of Orïsha (especially with the adaptation news!)
📖 Beasts of Prey
📖 The Inheritance Cycle
📖 The Atlas
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I’ve also got several that I’d like to start… but that’s another story entirely. 🙈
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Have you read any of these? 🤎
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Tell me just ONE of your auto-buy authors! 🫡
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I read The Charm Offensive a few years ago and instantly fell in love with Alison’s writing and the way the book made me feel so seen. 🥰 
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When I got an ARC of Kiss Her Once for Me, I was thrilled and once again inhaled the book. Yet again, it was a story that made me feel understood. 🥹
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I pretty much sobbed my way through Here We Go Again on audio and immediately purchased a physical copy so I could put myself through both the heartache and deep belly laughing again and again. 😅
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@alisoncochrun is forever and ever going to be an auto-buy author for me. 🤎
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Have you read any of these books? 📚
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What are five books or five series you find yourse What are five books or five series you find yourself constantly recommending? 🖐🏼
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TODAY IS MY 5TH BOOKSTAVERSARY! ☕️
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In honor of five years in this community, I wanted to share five books and five series I’m always recommending. These are stories that mean so much to me that I just wish everyone I encounter would read and love them too! 🥰
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FIVE STANDALONE BOOKS:
📖 The Nature of Witches
📖 The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue
📖 The Midnight Library
📖 The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo
📖 Echo North
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FIVE SERIES:
📚 Shadow and Bone
📚 Shades of Magic
📚 The Prison Healer
📚 The All Souls Trilogy
📚 Bright Falls
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I have so many more that I could share, but these are just a few that have made my life a little brighter 🤎
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When is your bookstaversary? 🤔
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Are you planning any rereads this year? 🔁
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Rereading is something that I absolutely love to do. While there are countless new releases to get excited about, there’s something incredibly comforting about revisiting my favorite books. 🥹
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One of my favorite series to reread is SHADES OF MAGIC. Nothing gets me quite as excited and emotional as those opening words: “Kell wore a very peculiar coat…” 🙌🏼 AH! Just writing that makes me anxious to pick up this comfort series again this year. 🙈
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Have you read this phenomenal series? 📚
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What was your last book of 2024 and what’s your What was your last book of 2024 and what’s your first for 2025 (or are they the same book)? 📖
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I ended the year with Set the Record Straight on audio (SO CUTE) and I’m ringing in the new year with The Wild Huntress as a buddy-read and listening to The Love of My Afterlife. 🙌🏼
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I’ve got some fun reading goals for myself this year (like lots of rereads and buddy-reads) and I’m hoping to fully dive back into creating content and being active on here again. 🥹 I miss y’all!
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What are your 2025 reading goals (if you have any)? 🤎
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Now that Thanksgiving is over and it’s “social Now that Thanksgiving is over and it’s “socially acceptable” (🙄) to get festive, tell me which books are on your holiday season TBR! 🎅🏼
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I always find myself reaching for a couple of annual rereads, including THE AFTERLIFE OF HOLLY CHASE (which I listen to every December), THE LION, THE WITCH AND THE WARDROBE, and LOVELIGHT FARMS as well 🎄
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There will also be some first-time reads on my list that I’m looking forward to picking up soon 🤎
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Do you have any festive reads that you recommend? 🫶🏼 
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