Is there a book you read this year that you don't Is there a book you read this year that you don't see mentioned nearly enough on bookstagram? 📖 Hype up why I should read it in the comments! 💬
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The first titles that come to mind from my 2023 reading list (so far) are:
🌲 We Are All So Good at Smiling by @ambsmcbride 
📖 The Neighbor Favor by @kristinaforest_ 
💻 Just My Type by @falonballard 
🥳 House Party edited by @justinwritesya 
🦊 The Night Fox by @ashleywilda_ 
🐦‍⬛ Illuminations by @redwombatstudio
📚 Story Thieves by @jamesrileyauthor 
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Have you read any of these books or are any of them on your TBR? 🤎 
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If the main character of your current read asked y If the main character of your current read asked you to swap lives with them right now, would you agree? 💭 Why or why not? 🤔
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🗝️ I definitely would NOT swap lives with either Grayson or Jameson in The Brothers Hawthorne because I don't even have a fraction of their brain power to solve puzzles and enter high-stakes games.. like that would just be a recipe for disaster! 🫣
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🏰 Aaaand I also probably wouldn't swap with Agatha or Sophie in The School for Good and Evil because I'd be very confused in a place like that and wind up creating chaos without meaning to because how do you *not* when you're living in close quarters with fairytale characters? 😅
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If you don't want to swap with the MC of your current read, which character WOULD you want to trade lives with? 📖
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What are some of your favorite autumnal books? 🍂
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Happy first weekend of autumn 🍁 Who else is as thrilled as I am that the best season has officially arrived? 🤭
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I spent the day baking pumpkin bread with my sister, reading The Brothers Hawthorne while sipping my (multiple) cups of coffee, and watching the blustery rainy weather 🎃
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To answer my own question, here are a few of my top cozy, autumn book recs:
• The Nature of Witches by Rachel Griffin
• All Souls by Deborah Harkness
• Legends & Lattes by Travis Baldree
• Payback’s a Witch by Lana Harper
• Sorcery of Thorns by Margaret Rogerson
• Spells for Lost Things by Jenna Evans Welch
• The Bone Houses by Emily Lloyd-Jones
• The Very Secret Society of Irregular Witches by Sangu Mandanna
• The Wicked Deep by Shea Ernshaw
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Have you read any of these? 📖
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Do you plan your reads around the seasons? 🍁
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I don't pick up many spring or summer books (since I dislike those seasons), but I typically find myself reading more cozy or witchy novels during autumn! 🍂 Doing this helps me to fully embrace my favorite time of the year 🙌🏼
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🔍 FUN FACT ABOUT THIS PHOTO: My sweet and smooshy calico cat, Nona, decided that scarf was her snuggle spot and curled right up—she makes the cutest prop, doesn’t she? 🥹
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Where do you purchase your home decor? 🪴 ⠀⠀ Where do you purchase your home decor? 🪴
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SURPRISE! I'm going to begin adding home content to this page and I'm incredibly excited about it 🥳 I've been slowly but surely transforming my house into the cozy little cottage of my dreams and the first thing to get a rework was the gallery wall in my bedroom, thanks to @desenio 🖼️
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Which print in my new gallery wall is your favorite? 🤎
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What are some books that you've made your entire p What are some books that you've made your entire personality? 🙈
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Truthfully, it doesn't matter how long you've followed me, you probably already know that I love all things Shadow and Bone 🫶🏼 I've been going through a Grishaverse reread this year and loving every second of it, but nothing will compare to those first three books! 🥰
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I was late to the game with this trilogy, reading it for the first time just a little before the show first premiered, but it quickly became a core part of my personality 😉 Now, I own two signed copies of the first book (one is the special edition hardcover and one is the show tie-in) 📖 And no joke, 90% of my candles are related to the Grishaverse in some way (thank you @janzywaxco for providing the perfect scents for my many rereads and rewatches 🕯️)
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Hi friends--what have I missed? 🤎
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All I'm hearing on repeat in my head is Jacob Black's ridiculous, "Where the hell have you been, loca?" 😆 I missed you all SO MUCH this past month and a half 😭
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So to answer the werewolf's question:
🫶🏼 I got to spend a week with one of my best buddies in Ohio and we made friendship blankets, got matching Gilmore Girls tattoos, went to high tea, watched a ton of Seinfeld, avoided a tornado, and shopped til we dropped (it was the best time)
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🥀 The chance to meet one of my favorite authors during the same trip? Couldn't pass that up! I attended the Foxglove book tour in Columbus for @authoradalyngrace and it was such a surreal experience
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🪴 I've begun to work on some home projects--finally turning my cozy cottage into exactly that--and I'm loving every second of it! Very thankful for some incredible partnerships that will be coming to this page real soon
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🥰 I’ve spent so much quality time with my family, including celebrating my sister’s birthday with her making such precious memories. So grateful for my incredible tribe who have held me up and brought so much comfort lately. 
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💔 The life update that I posted on my stories on Sept 1 explained the hardest part of why I disappeared for so long. I know that there are great plans for my future even as I stumble my way through the now (if you missed it and are confused, feel free to DM me)
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Now, tell me something that you're looking forward to this autumn 🍂
What was the last book someone recommended to you What was the last book someone recommended to you that became a favorite? 🤎
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The Bone Houses is a cozy-creepy (aka, not scary, but just a little eerie, while also being totally cozy and atmospheric) fantasy with incredible disability rep and a truly creative story 🦴 If you haven't read it yet, I highly recommend it for your "spooky season" TBR 🎃
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Lifestyle, Self Care · July 12, 2023

How to Reduce Anxiety When You’re Panicking

This post was originally published in March 2020. It has been revised and republished with the best self-care exercises that reduce anxiety when you’re panicking.

If you’re someone who already struggles with anxiety, chances are that in the past few years it’s been extra hard not to panic. I understand. That’s why I’ve put together this beneficial list of 15 self-care exercises you can practice to reduce that stress.

Life can feel extra scary sometimes. There are days I just want to hide from my phone (and all the news it carries) and curl into a ball. However, as a blogger, the last thing I can do is avoid social media, so I’ve found other ways to cope with my panic. Some of these may seem simple or childlike, but I urge you to open your mind. Now isn’t the time to be haughty or particular about self-care. In fact, it’s the time to embrace any sense of juvenile wonder and excitement, focus on the special little moments, and if you’re blessed to be with friends and family that make you feel safe – cherish that!

I have medically diagnosed anxiety, along with clinical depression and bipolar I disorder. I also have a chronic gastrointestinal disease. So sometimes I find myself leaning towards manic hysteria and panic on a regular basis. It can be really difficult to refocus and regularly utilize self-care exercises, but when I do, I notice a massive improvement in my overall demeanor and mood. These tried and true tips will help you too, no matter what level of anxiety you may be facing.

Practical Self-Care Exercises to Reduce Anxiety

I am clearly not a medical professional, nor do I claim to be any kind of expert on anxiety reduction. However, I do want to provide resources for anyone looking to incorporate more self-care into their daily lives. These are just a few of the ways I manage my anxiety. I also highly recommend seeking professional help, because you never know the positive impact it could have on your life!

Blow Bubbles

Whenever I’m feeling anxious, I bring out a little jar of bubbles and watch them pop slowly. I see how big I can make them, or just poke them to hear the audible “pop!” Don’t have any bubbles on hand? Squeeze your dish soap container and watch as the tiny bubbles fly around the kitchen.

sour candy

This was something I learned from a therapist years ago, and now it’s a go-to whenever I’m experiencing a panic attack or severe anxiety of any kind. I find the sourest candy I can handle (my favorites are the lemon Warheads – so sour) and once it lands on my tongue, I focus only on how sour it is until the sour sensation goes away. It takes your mind off your anxiety, even if it’s just for a few minutes.

drink red wine

Not in excess, mind you. Intoxication has never been a good solution to stress, as much as it can be tempting. However, red wine can soothe and calm, and even promote better sleep, but once you’ve hit tipsy, it’s not going to affect you in the same positive manner. In small doses (like one glass after dinner), red wine can reduce that anxious feeling – and it even aids in digestion.

snuggle a pet

I’ve always been a kitty person. For over eight years, my sweet companion, Luna, kept me company better than anyone else and helped soothe me during stressful times. Now our precious calico, Nona, loves to curl up on my lap, and it helps bring me back to earth. Sometimes just petting her head or scratching her chin and hearing her purr was incredibly calming to me. Whether it’s your cat, dog, hamster, bird, etc. just give them a little extra love and watch them give it back to you.

take a steam shower

Turn your shower on super hot, close the bathroom door, and walk away. Come back 5 minutes later to a free sauna. Add a few drops of essential oils like lavender or eucalyptus and peppermint for a truly relaxing shower. You might want to turn the heat down a bit once you actually get into the water, or you can just sit on the floor of the bathroom and breathe in the steam.

read a fictional book

May I suggest a romantic comedy or fantasy novel? This is a great way to take your mind off of “real life” and escape into a story. It’s also beneficial for your mind, versus binging a television show. Read before bed and you’ll find yourself sleeping better too! Reading is the number one way I relieve stress.

online shop (for fun)

Rather than adding stress by buying groceries or purchasing necessities, how about shopping for your wardrobe? Or maybe there’s a new piece of decor or seasonal decoration you’ve been looking at! Indulge in a little retail therapy! Set a budget and then enjoy the “frivolity” of adding new things to your life! This kind of distraction can be so helpful!

paint your nails

You don’t need to spend an arm and a leg at the salon. Instead, get your own drying light and treat yourself to an at-home manicure. You get extra points if you clip your cuticles, apply vitamin oils, and give yourself a hand massage with your favorite lotion. I try to do this at least once a month. I’ll turn on a k-drama or listen to an audiobook and just paint away.

bake

I often enjoy waking up early on a weekend morning and turning on some light jazz to listen to while I bake a coffee cake, molasses cookies, or cappuccino muffins. It’s also fun to try new recipes, especially when you get creative with the ingredients you already have in your home! Baking is a great way to completely immerse your mind in a task – and the best part? You have something delicious to enjoy after all your hard work is complete.

play a board game

My husband and I play board games pretty frequently, and we’ve even had a routine game night with friends in the past. It’s a great way to de-stress and just have fun. If you’re anxious about spending time with a large group, here is one of our favorite 2-player games (we like to play it while watching the show it’s based on)!

go on a nature walk

Being out in nature is healing in so many ways. If you can, get outside and just go for a walk. It can be at your favorite park or just around your neighborhood. Now that I live in the country, you can almost guarantee that first thing in the morning, I’ll be outside walking up and down my long driveway with a mug of steaming hot coffee. Getting that sunshine is the best, especially during the cooler seasons.

face mask

Face masks solve everything, right? I mean – at least they help your skin! And who says you need to wait for “self-care Sunday” to pour that glass of red wine I mentioned before and slap on a face mask? My favorite mask of all time is this one and I’ve been using it religiously for years. I notice my skin purging all the ick the next day, but then my pores shrink and my skin is smoother and clearer! It’s a great feeling.

crank up some throwback jams and dance

My husband and I will often look up 90s or 00s playlists on Spotify and belt our favorite hits from middle and high school at the top of our lungs. We’ll dance and sing while simultaneously reminiscing the good times. Singing and dancing increase the production of serotonin (the happy hormone) and literally just makes you feel better!

at-home fitness

If you’re spooked by the gym, how about looking up a yoga routine on YouTube and practicing at home? I’ve been spending time on my mat every day for over 200 days now and it has made a massive difference in every area of my life. I highly recommend it – even if you think that yoga isn’t for you. If you want some extra cardio, try dancing it out with this “feel good” option.

Learn to make a new drink

Coffee lover? How about experimenting with different syrups or espressos or even iced versus hot? It’s fun to create new and unique beverages to enjoy by yourself or with a loved one. If you’re not a huge fan of coffee but enjoy warm and yummy drinks, give spiced mocha a try. Maybe mixology is more your thing! Get on Pinterest and search for some new alcoholic bevs to try out. I love creating fun, fandom-inspired cocktails with my friends.

Meditate

I’ve said it a million times, and I won’t quit saying it until everyone has this app on their phone: Headspace is, hands down, the best meditation app there is. I’ve been using it for over 8 years, and it has quite literally saved my life more than once. It’s 100% worth paying for the subscription, and there are hundreds (if not thousands) of guided and unguided meditations to practice. You can even set it up to listen to ASMR story-telling that helps you fall asleep. I especially appreciate these because it helps turn my brain off at night!


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How Yoga Has Changed My Life // How to Be Intentional With Your Self-Care Routine // How to Have a Better Night’s Sleep

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Lindsey
2 years ago

I love this! I’m definitely finding that my anxiety is up and sometimes it’s hard to break out of it once it takes hold. I love these ideas but my favourite has to be blowing bubbles – so simple and who doesn’t love blowing bubbles? Great post!

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Rachael
2 years ago

This is such a great post! As someone who struggles with anxiety regularly, nothing makes me feel better than reading my book and having a hot shower xx

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Lizzie
2 years ago

These are great tips! Last year was hard for me too for so many reasons but being stuck inside for the majority of my time in a tiny apartment really wore down my mental health. Since we moved into a place with more space and an actual backyard, I’ve been doing much better. But now, my husband is having a ton of health issues and he could definitely use some simple ways to de-stress. Sharing this post with him <3

Lizzie
http://www.lizzieinlace.com

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A Cup of Wonderland
2 years ago

A really great post and so many ways to handle anxiety that I didn’t realise that I was already doing. I love sour candy and red wine (not together mind) and I regularly do jumping jacks to help decompress and get rid of the nervous energy.

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Linda
2 years ago

Fantastic list! I love the sour candy trick and must try. My very anxious kiddo would love it, too. Admittedly, my favorite escape / reset is reading and I’ve been wanting to do nothing but that for several days now…think my psyche is telling me something. Hmm.

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Lisa
2 years ago

I’m very lucky not so suffer from anxiety but even so the pandemic and home school have been testing my limits over the last 12 months. I love all your tips, some I’d never considered before. Time spent in my garden is where I feel most serene – but you can bet I’ll be taking out my daughter’s bubble blowing kit this weekend, that’s a fab suggestion! x

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Cora @ TeaPartyPrincess
2 years ago

I love the things you’ve shared here. I was diagnosed with severe anxiety last year and have been trying to work out what works for me.
I particularly love a hot bath, a face mask, a glass of wine, and a book. Although my nephew has some stim toys which are incredible at helping me focus, I could sit for hours with the popper.
Cora | https://www.teapartyprincess.co.uk/

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Carrington | Chaos and Coffee
2 years ago

This is a great post! I love these self care tips as well, I’ve been feeling a lot more anxious in general lately, so I’m definitely going to try some of these tips. Xx.

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Ruth| Ruthiee loves Glamour
2 years ago

This is a much needed post. I agree with the fact that the pandemic sent us into panic mode and those who were already down with anxiety before the pandemic had it way worse. I developed a little bit of anxiety during the pandemic which I am finding my way out of but there have been times when it hit a little harder. In times like that, it can be really difficult to break out and these are amazing ways to distract yourself for some time and just relax. My favourite is the face mask. I love a good face mask. I mean who doesn’t haha! I also love the idea of going on a nature walk (I find nature walks so amazing and refreshing. They give this extreme peace of mind). I also love the idea of meditating, a steam shower and painting your nails! Lovely post x!

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Alice Spake
2 years ago

These are so helpful, I feel really on edge at the mo and take stock and having a hit shower or disappearing with a book for an hour has definitely helped xx

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Neely Moldovan
2 years ago

I love these ideas and they are so important. I have a lot of anxiety and I have had to find some good coping mechanisms.

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Holly Wood
2 years ago

Wine/beer or fitness are my go to things when I need to chill out or relax. Both used at very different times of the day (of course!).

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Lucy
2 years ago

I love these self care exercises, I love the ideas of going for a walk and drinking wine, that’s something I’m always for! x

Lucy | http://www.lucymary.co.uk

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Kelly Diane
2 years ago

This is such a helpful post. I’ve been struggling with anxiety for the last year. I’m definitely going to try some of the exercises you’ve mentioned.

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Maria Koss
2 years ago

Those are some great exercises. I haven’t even heard of some of them. Sour candy, that sounds genius! I find what really helps me is a good walk, a long bath or discussing my concerns with my husband.

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mia
2 years ago

These are all wonderful tips. I never used to struggle with anxiety, but with the pandemic it’s really been flaring up. I’ll try some of these! xx

mia // https://beautiful-inspiring-creative-life.com/

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Laura Leigh
2 years ago

I honestly hadn’t heard of so many of these! While I don’t suffer too much from anxiety – just little bouts here and there, this was very informative and I enjoyed reading/learning more. Thank you for sharing girl friend!

xo Laura Leigh
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Ekta
2 years ago

This is such a helpful post considering how pandemic has limited our lives. I really love to go for a natural walk idea. It’s good for us who are locked in our homes.

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Lauren
2 years ago

These are some great suggestions to help you combat with anxiety. I live with anxiety and it can be overwhelming sometimes. Thank you for sharing your suggestions.

Lauren bournemouthgirl.com

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Jennifer Prince
2 years ago

Snuggle a pet or do a face mask? Yes, please! But what I really want to have a convo about is that sticky bun. It looks SO AMAZING!!! It is locally made in Richmond?? If so, I’ve got to get one next time I’m in town. Yum!!

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Stephanie Whitman
2 years ago
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It was from a cafe in Charlottesville that I visited on my birthday last year 🙂

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Jolayne
2 years ago

Some great ideas that I can share with my daughter. She would especially love the sour candy idea.

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Marissa
2 years ago

A steam shower definitely helps me when I’m stressed! Or wine and a bath. Love these ideas! Thanks for sharing

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Stephani
2 years ago

These are great tips and ideas on reducing anxiety! Long steam hot showers are my
Favorite!

Xo, Steph

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Ashley@AttemptsAtDomestication
2 years ago

These are excellent tips! I bought sour candy to try the next time I have a really anxious episode. I definitely dove back into reading Fantasy this past year as a way to cope.

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Anna English
2 years ago

This is such a great list of recs! I typically will go for a run or try and journal when I start to feel super anxious.

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Greta
2 years ago

My anxiety has gotten worse over the past year. Meditation and yoga have definitely been helping with my intentional breathing.

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Jenny in Neverland
2 years ago

Great tips here. I used to have medically diagnosed anxiety (which I don’t anymore yay!) and drinking water used to really help me. I still carry water with me everywhere I go because I find it such a comfort x

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Lovely
2 years ago

Informative post! Blowing bubbles and eating a sour candy are brilliant suggestions! Thanks for sharing!
xoxo
Lovely
http://www.mynameislovely.com

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Megan Elliott
2 years ago

These are such great tips. I remember reading the original version of this post last year and being so intrigued by the sour candy idea! It makes a lot of sense and sounds like it would really help take the focus off of an intense moment. I definitely use a lot of these as self-care practices: face masks, steamy shower, board games, and baking (well, cooking for me) are all incredibly calming.

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Annie
2 years ago

These are such amazing tips, I love the steam shower one in particular, I’d never thought to do that ever, let alone when I’m in a bad mood. Thank you for such a great list!

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Is there a book you read this year that you don't Is there a book you read this year that you don't see mentioned nearly enough on bookstagram? 📖 Hype up why I should read it in the comments! 💬
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The first titles that come to mind from my 2023 reading list (so far) are:
🌲 We Are All So Good at Smiling by @ambsmcbride 
📖 The Neighbor Favor by @kristinaforest_ 
💻 Just My Type by @falonballard 
🥳 House Party edited by @justinwritesya 
🦊 The Night Fox by @ashleywilda_ 
🐦‍⬛ Illuminations by @redwombatstudio
📚 Story Thieves by @jamesrileyauthor 
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If the main character of your current read asked y If the main character of your current read asked you to swap lives with them right now, would you agree? 💭 Why or why not? 🤔
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🗝️ I definitely would NOT swap lives with either Grayson or Jameson in The Brothers Hawthorne because I don't even have a fraction of their brain power to solve puzzles and enter high-stakes games.. like that would just be a recipe for disaster! 🫣
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🏰 Aaaand I also probably wouldn't swap with Agatha or Sophie in The School for Good and Evil because I'd be very confused in a place like that and wind up creating chaos without meaning to because how do you *not* when you're living in close quarters with fairytale characters? 😅
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I've been drinking this Bannered Mare tea from @steepedinlore with a splash of milk almost daily and it's been just the pick-me-up I need when I have those midday slumps after spending hours at my desk 💻 You don't want to miss this one and you can use the code ESPRESSO10 for a discount when you make your purchase! 🫖
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If you don't want to swap with the MC of your current read, which character WOULD you want to trade lives with? 📖
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What are some of your favorite autumnal books? 🍂
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Happy first weekend of autumn 🍁 Who else is as thrilled as I am that the best season has officially arrived? 🤭
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I spent the day baking pumpkin bread with my sister, reading The Brothers Hawthorne while sipping my (multiple) cups of coffee, and watching the blustery rainy weather 🎃
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To answer my own question, here are a few of my top cozy, autumn book recs:
• The Nature of Witches by Rachel Griffin
• All Souls by Deborah Harkness
• Legends & Lattes by Travis Baldree
• Payback’s a Witch by Lana Harper
• Sorcery of Thorns by Margaret Rogerson
• Spells for Lost Things by Jenna Evans Welch
• The Bone Houses by Emily Lloyd-Jones
• The Very Secret Society of Irregular Witches by Sangu Mandanna
• The Wicked Deep by Shea Ernshaw
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Have you read any of these? 📖
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Do you plan your reads around the seasons? 🍁
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I don't pick up many spring or summer books (since I dislike those seasons), but I typically find myself reading more cozy or witchy novels during autumn! 🍂 Doing this helps me to fully embrace my favorite time of the year 🙌🏼
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It'll come as no surprise to you that, thanks to @steepedinlore, I've also been sipping on many mugs of tea while I dive into my autumnal reads 🫖 Make sure you use my code ESPRESSO10 to get a discount on your seasonal tea purchase! 🤎
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🔍 FUN FACT ABOUT THIS PHOTO: My sweet and smooshy calico cat, Nona, decided that scarf was her snuggle spot and curled right up—she makes the cutest prop, doesn’t she? 🥹
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Where do you purchase your home decor? 🪴 ⠀⠀ Where do you purchase your home decor? 🪴
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SURPRISE! I'm going to begin adding home content to this page and I'm incredibly excited about it 🥳 I've been slowly but surely transforming my house into the cozy little cottage of my dreams and the first thing to get a rework was the gallery wall in my bedroom, thanks to @desenio 🖼️
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I've been shopping from Desenio for YEARS now and very highly recommend their stunning art prints and frames, so of course, the opportunity to be a #DesenioPartner for this project was a dream come true 🙌🏼 In fact, I have gallery walls featuring their posters in three different rooms in my home--that's how much I love them 😍
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Which print in my new gallery wall is your favorite? 🤎
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What are some books that you've made your entire p What are some books that you've made your entire personality? 🙈
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Truthfully, it doesn't matter how long you've followed me, you probably already know that I love all things Shadow and Bone 🫶🏼 I've been going through a Grishaverse reread this year and loving every second of it, but nothing will compare to those first three books! 🥰
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I was late to the game with this trilogy, reading it for the first time just a little before the show first premiered, but it quickly became a core part of my personality 😉 Now, I own two signed copies of the first book (one is the special edition hardcover and one is the show tie-in) 📖 And no joke, 90% of my candles are related to the Grishaverse in some way (thank you @janzywaxco for providing the perfect scents for my many rereads and rewatches 🕯️)
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When was the last time you reread your favorite series? 📚 
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Hi friends--what have I missed? 🤎
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All I'm hearing on repeat in my head is Jacob Black's ridiculous, "Where the hell have you been, loca?" 😆 I missed you all SO MUCH this past month and a half 😭
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So to answer the werewolf's question:
🫶🏼 I got to spend a week with one of my best buddies in Ohio and we made friendship blankets, got matching Gilmore Girls tattoos, went to high tea, watched a ton of Seinfeld, avoided a tornado, and shopped til we dropped (it was the best time)
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📖 @chronicacademia and I have been buddy-reading like our lives depend on it for quite some time, but actually meeting in person and being able to geek out over books together face-to-face was the absolute best
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🥀 The chance to meet one of my favorite authors during the same trip? Couldn't pass that up! I attended the Foxglove book tour in Columbus for @authoradalyngrace and it was such a surreal experience
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🪴 I've begun to work on some home projects--finally turning my cozy cottage into exactly that--and I'm loving every second of it! Very thankful for some incredible partnerships that will be coming to this page real soon
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🥰 I’ve spent so much quality time with my family, including celebrating my sister’s birthday with her making such precious memories. So grateful for my incredible tribe who have held me up and brought so much comfort lately. 
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💔 The life update that I posted on my stories on Sept 1 explained the hardest part of why I disappeared for so long. I know that there are great plans for my future even as I stumble my way through the now (if you missed it and are confused, feel free to DM me)
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Now, tell me something that you're looking forward to this autumn 🍂
What was the last book someone recommended to you What was the last book someone recommended to you that became a favorite? 🤎
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Okay, this wasn't the last one for me, but it was the FIRST book that @chronicacademia recommended to me… and it became an instant fave 😍
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The Bone Houses is a cozy-creepy (aka, not scary, but just a little eerie, while also being totally cozy and atmospheric) fantasy with incredible disability rep and a truly creative story 🦴 If you haven't read it yet, I highly recommend it for your "spooky season" TBR 🎃
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What's a cozy-creepy book that you enjoy? 🙈 
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Do you prefer to savor one book for an extended pe Do you prefer to savor one book for an extended period of time, or do you tend to fly through your reads pretty quickly? ⏳
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Normally, I would say that I fly through books--inhaling them more than savoring them 😅 But over the last week, I spent time buddy-reading The Fragile Threads of Power... and taking my time with it ☕️
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There was something really nice about slowing down and reading little bits at a time, then discussing them with my friend, then reading more, then theorizing about the plot, then reading a little more, etc. 🤎 It felt good to just appreciate the book rather than gobbling it up (though I know I'll go right back to that with whatever I read next 😆)
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If you tend to fly through your reads, what's the last book that made you WANT to take your time with it and savor each moment? 📖 
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Do you have any auto-buy authors? 💳
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I'm SO picky with this list because, as a rule, I don't buy books unless I've read them already and loved them enough to read them again 🤷🏻‍♀️ BUT there are a few authors who are exceptions to this because I've literally never been disappointed by their books and I just want to support them in any way I can so I'll pre-order, order multiple copies, and screech about their books til my throat gets raw 🤎
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 🍂 Rachel Griffin - the first book I read by her was The Nature of Witches and I was instantly in love with her atmospheric writing and the way every book makes me appreciate nature
🌲 Joanna Ruth Meyer - the first book I read by her was Echo North and now I've reread several of her books countless times and own multiple copies of my fave
🥲 Justin A Reynolds - the first book I read by him was Opposite of Always and literally every one of his books makes me both laugh til my belly aches and cry my eyes out
☀️ Emily Henry - the first book I read by her was Beach Read and now I crown her the romance queen and live for every summer-y release
🏙️ John Green - the first book I read by him was Paper Towns and it remained my favorite book for many, many years, even after the hype surrounding TFiOS... I learn from everything he writes
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