Has your current favorite genre ALWAYS been your f Has your current favorite genre ALWAYS been your favorite genre? πŸ’«
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A friend asked me the other day how I found myself enjoying fantasy and I told her that it started when I read THE CHRONICLES OF NARNIA with my family at 6 years old 🦁 It was a popular genre on the bookshelves in our home, so it came as no surprise that a few years later I was picking up THE HOBBIT and THE LORD OF THE RINGS πŸ’ I never really knew life without fantasy novels and I'm really grateful for the fact that my parents always encouraged my desire to read as many books from as many different genres as I could get my hands on πŸ“š
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What are your ultimate ESCAPE reads? 🌌
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One of the reasons I love fantasy so much is because it is the furthest thing from reality! πŸ‰ Since reading IS my escape, I appreciate books that take me somewhere else entirely - another world, another dimension, somewhere magical πŸ’«
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Some of my favorite escape reads are:
♠️ CARAVAL - Remember, it's only a game... or is it? 
✨ THE STARLESS SEA - Follow the clues: a bee, a key, and a sword.
πŸ— THE TEN THOUSAND DOORS OF JANUARY - Secret doors written into existence. 
πŸ¦‹ STRANGE THE DREAMER - A moth, light upon the brow, can transport you into the dream.
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Honestly, just typing out these titles gave me a little shiver of delight because I just love them all so much! πŸ₯Ί Have you read any of them? πŸ“š 
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Who are your favorite "cinnamon roll boys" (otherw Who are your favorite "cinnamon roll boys" (otherwise known as "soft boys") from the books you've read? πŸ₯°
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I'm not at all a fan of the real "bad boy" in the stories I read, though I don't mind a tougher exterior with a kind heart 🀎 I've always preferred sweeties, so my favorite "cinnamon roll boys" are: 
πŸ¦‹ Seth from WICKED LOVELY
🌳 Owen from INTO THE HEARTLESS WOOD
β›± Alex from PEOPLE WE MEET ON VACATION
πŸ›³ Patrick from THE LUCKY ESCAPE
πŸ’ƒπŸ½ Xavier from INSTRUCTIONS FOR DANCING
⭐️ Augustus from THE FAULT IN OUR STARS
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What was the last book you read based on a booksta What was the last book you read based on a bookstagram recommendation? πŸ’¬
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A lot of the titles I've picked up in the last year have been influenced by bookstagram πŸ“± I feel like I'm adding a new book to my Goodreads TBR on a daily basis, thanks to all of you! πŸ™ˆ A few months back, I read These Violent Delights, and while it definitely made me squirm (I don't do well with... some of the topics [redacted because of spoilers haha] πŸ₯΄), it was fun to notice what others enjoyed about it as I read! πŸ“–
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The audiobook I finished today was a booksta pick: The Ten Thousand Doors of January - and I enjoyed it thoroughly 🎧 It reminded me so much of The Starless Sea ✨ Have you read any of the books I mentioned? πŸ“– 
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Do you enjoy reading classic literature? 🀎
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I'll admit, I've never been the *biggest* fan of classics πŸ™ˆ I feel as though that's an abomination for a bookworm, but it's just the truth 🀭 My exceptions are anything by Louisa May Alcott (specifically Jo's Boys), The Chronicles of Narnia, and Anne of Green Gables πŸ“š I think I enjoy these because they're nostalgic for me - they're the books I grew up with πŸ’πŸ»β€β™€οΈ
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I found this stunning, vintage copy of the first three Anne volumes in one at Goodwill for $3 and snatched it up right away 😍 I love the worn look to it and the way it smells πŸ‘ƒπŸΌ
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Have you read any of the novels I mentioned? πŸ“– [Photograph taken prior to Luna's procedure] 
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Do you have any rereads planned for this year? πŸ“š
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I found myself stating, "I need to read that again," on a regular basis, so I put together a list of some of the books and series I'd like to revisit in 2021 πŸ“ Now I really can't wait to dive into some old favorites and even different formats of recent reads πŸ“–
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RENEGADES is one of the first ones I added to my list because I flew through this trilogy in a week last year and I'd like to take my time with it when I reread so I can really indulge in the incredible story πŸ¦ΈπŸ»β€β™€οΈ I also added THE LUNAR CHRONICLES (on a Marissa Meyer kick, clearly) as well as some of my comfort reads from high school like PAPER TOWNS and DELIRIUM 😱
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Have you read any of the books I mentioned? 🀳🏻 
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Do you write down book quotes as you read them? πŸ“
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I don't like to mark my books in any way, but I do want to remember the quotes that impact me as I read ✍🏼 I'll update my Goodreads progress, jot down a note in my phone, or sometimes I'll even take photos of the book and "highlight" the photo πŸ˜‚
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One of my recent favorite quotes was this:
"Do you know how you live three hundred years? she says.
And when he asks how, she smiles. "The same way you live one. A second at a time." - The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue (aka quite possibly the most quotable book I've ever read) πŸ’«
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What are some favorite quotes from your recent reads? πŸ—― 
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Are there any books you've read that made you want Are there any books you've read that made you want to pick up a new (or old) hobby? πŸ’ƒπŸ»
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When I read Instructions for Dancing, it made me miss ballroom dancing, which is something I did for 3 years in high school! πŸ‘  I haven't danced like that in so long, but reading this inspired me to begin practicing some again (even if it's in my room, by myself πŸ˜‚)
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I absolutely loved every minute of what was yet another masterpiece by one of my forever favorite authors, @nicolayoon 🀍 So thankful that I was able to read the ARC via @netgalley and I've already pre-ordered the physical copy to read again when it comes out in June! 🌸
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Have you read anything by Nicola Yoon (like Everything, Everything or The Sun Is Also a Star)? πŸ“š 
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Tell me about some of your favorite TRILOGIES πŸ“š Tell me about some of your favorite TRILOGIES πŸ“š
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Personally, I think that trilogies are the exact perfect length for a series (not too long, but not too short) πŸ™ˆ Maybe that's why some of my favorite books are part of trilogies! πŸ€” I was thinking about this so much that I actually wrote a full blog post about it last week and I'm now on the hunt to find more trilogies to add to my ever-growing list πŸ“
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Some of my forever favorites are:
πŸ’Œ TO ALL THE BOYS I'VE LOVED BEFORE
πŸ¦ΈπŸ»β€β™€οΈ RENEGADES
πŸŽͺ CARAVAL
πŸ–€ A DARKER SHADE OF MAGIC
πŸ‡ΈπŸ‡¬ CRAZY RICH ASIANS
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Lifestyle, Self Care · August 14, 2020

How To Sleep Better Every Single Night


Getting a great night of sleep doesn’t have to be a mystery any longer.

My mom has always struggled with insomnia, and I was “lucky” enough to inherit that gene. Even when I was a lot younger, I dealt with awful nightmares and would battle my anxiety late into the night. Sometimes melatonin just doesn’t cut it. I’ve had years to develop a bedtime ritual that works for me. I try to follow all of these steps every single evening, if possible. Once I developed the habit of sticking to this routine, I began sleeping much better. Now those fitful nights are few and far-between.

Some important things to remember: it takes 30 days of repetition for something to become a habit. As long as you faithfully stick to this routine, you will begin to see a positive difference. Also, sleep is different for everyone. What works for me may not work the same way for you, but if you struggle with getting a restful night of sleep, I suggest giving this routine a try!

The Best Bedtime Routine for a Great Night of Sleep

write tomorrow’s schedule

If you have everything written down ahead of time, you won’t be trying to process the next thing on your to-do list. It’s already prepared for tomorrow. In addition, laying out your clothing for the following day eliminates the stress of knowing you have to get up early in the morning to choose something before work.

turn off all screens

Your brain “stays awake” much longer if you stare at your phone or have a TV on while you’re in bed. Give your eyes and your mind a break from those blue screens.

take a warm bath

I suggest adding epsom salts to detox. Pour a glass of red wine. Listen to a podcast or audiobook while you relax and know that there’s nothing left for you to do.

DIFFUSE LAVENDER ESSENTIAL OILS

Lavender promotes excellent sleep health, and I diffuse that with peppermint at night to counter any evening indigestion or nausea along with providing relaxation.

SIP ON A HOT, DECAF BEVERAGE

Herbal tea is the way to go. Or you can do decaffeinated coffee, if you’d like. If you’re not into coffee or tea, don’t reach for the hot cocoa, instead, boil some water, add a slice of lemon and a dollop of honey. So soothing.

Listen to instrumental music

The worst thing is having a vocal track stuck in your head while you’re trying to sleep. Instead, I’ve got a wide range of relaxing, instrumental playlists that you can access right here.

read a physical book

Remember the no screens rule? Put away your e-reader and grab a paper copy of a book. I suggest a lighthearted fiction. Nothing too action or violence-heavy.

journal about your day

Write down what you did and how you felt so you can process these emotions before trying to drift off. If you’re focused on what went wrong during your day, you’ll be anxious all night long. Work it out on paper.

PRACTICE DEEP-BREATHING AND GUIDED MEDITATION

I can’t recommend the Headspace app enough. They have nighttime meditations that are meant to help you fall asleep. They have ASMR tracks, and even “bedtime stories” of a sort. I love the Rainday Antiques sleepcast.

KEEP YOUR ROUTINE CONSISTENT

Don’t give up on this after one night. Try to stick with it long-term so you can see how the repetition changes how you sleep!


Download My FREE Bedtime Routine Checklist

You’ll be a sleep master in no time when you follow this simple nightly ritual. Print and keep by your bedside, put it in your daily planner, or check things off on your tablet or smartphone!


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Comments

  1. Lizzie says

    August 14, 2020 at 10:41 AM

    These are some really great tips! I love writing my to do list for the next day otherwise my mind is goin a million miles a minute haha!

    Lizzie
    http://www.lizzieinlace.com

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:25 AM

      Exactly! I have a hard time turning off my brain at night, so this is a good way for me to at least compartmentalize.

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  2. rebecca says

    August 14, 2020 at 10:44 AM

    I am definitely guilty of doing all the things you say not to do, lol! I do love a meditation while falling asleep and the bath + glass of wine is right up my alley. These tips are SUPER helpful, thanks for sharing Steph!

    xx rebecca // http://www.rebeccapiersol.me

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:25 AM

      I’ve just found those things keep my mind awake much longer and prevent me from getting a peaceful night of sleep. However, I know it’s different for everyone.

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  3. Laura Leigh says

    August 14, 2020 at 11:49 AM

    these are all such great tips and beautiful photos! I use to diffuse lavender and completely stopped for some reason. I need to get back to that! thank you for the great reminder!

    xo Laura Leigh
    https://louellareese.com

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:26 AM

      You should try it again πŸ™‚ Diffusing lavender is such an excellent way to promote better sleep help.

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  4. Sarah Provirose says

    August 14, 2020 at 1:25 PM

    These are all such great tips!! I am an avid journaler and it always helps me relax before switching off for the night. Also, instrumental music is a must for me!

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:27 AM

      I definitely need to up my game on the journaling front. I just know that every time I’ve made that part of my routine, it has helped a lot! I’m glad you include that in your routine.

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  5. Shirsha says

    August 14, 2020 at 1:29 PM

    While I’ve figured out some semblance of a morning routine, a peaceful night time routine continues to remain elusive. I’m on my laptop/phone for way past what i know is ideal – the lockdown has especially screwed up my habits. πŸ™

    But this list is definitely helpful. I’ll say I do about 3-4 of these things already. I just need to get better about the no screens part!

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:28 AM

      I’m not great with a morning routine, since I work from home. My morning routine usually consists of waking up and grabbing my laptop to work in bed for 3 hours straight haha! Probably not the best, but my nighttime routine is SET. We just need to flip-flop πŸ˜‰

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  6. Serena says

    August 14, 2020 at 2:17 PM

    Some great tips here! I’ve found it so difficult to sleep pretty much every night this week due to the heatwave we’ve been having in the UK!

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:29 AM

      That’s so exhausting. You don’t have AC?? I’ve only found out recently that it’s primarily only an American thing. Makes me feel so bad for the rest of the world!

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  7. Lucy says

    August 14, 2020 at 4:16 PM

    One thing I always do is turn off my phone when I go to bed, I don’t really like to have screen time once I’m in bed! I do like to read before I go to sleep as I find that relaxing and it helps me unwind x

    Lucy | http://www.lucymary.co.uk

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:29 AM

      Precisely! That’s the best way to go about it. Looking at any screen before bed is so bad for your sleep health. I’m glad you’ve already made it a habit to turn your phone off and read instead πŸ™‚

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  8. Kelly Diane says

    August 14, 2020 at 4:52 PM

    These are some great tips. I really need to get better at turning off my phone and laptop earlier.

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:30 AM

      It’s something I see a lot of people struggle with. But once you find a way to break that habit, you can create better ones!

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  9. Kelly says

    August 14, 2020 at 5:19 PM

    I’m fortunate enough to not suffer with insomnia but when I have a few bad nights in a row having a bedtime routine really helps. Having a bath and writing a to do list for the day ahead are two things that always really help me. I’ve never thought about having a warm drink before bed, will definitely have to give that a try! Thanks for sharing!

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:30 AM

      It’s funny because growing up I read about children drinking warm milk to sleep better. I never enjoyed that, but I do love a mug of tea or honey-lemon water!

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  10. MagicandBliss says

    August 15, 2020 at 2:29 PM

    Your blog looks lovely. Very informative and lovely suggestions. Will definitely try the bath one for sure. Thanks for sharing!

    MagicandBliss | https://magicandbliss.com/

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:31 AM

      I hope that evening baths help you sleep even better!

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  11. Adaleta Avdic says

    August 16, 2020 at 6:55 PM

    These are really great tips indeed. Turning off screens is so important, but I’ve definitely become the person who needs the TV on to fall asleep. My fiancΓ© is against that idea, and wants screens off too, so it’s a struggle every night since I like the background noise until I fall asleep! I usually set a timer for 30 mins so it’s not on for too long!

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:32 AM

      I love background noise, don’t get me wrong, but I use a fan and sleep sounds on my meditation app, Headspace, to rest easier. Then I read instead of staring at a screen, and it helps me sleep much better!

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  12. Greta says

    August 16, 2020 at 10:13 PM

    These are great tips! I’m the type of person who works and works until I fall into bed at night. I need to be better about my sleep schedule!

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:32 AM

      I understand, as I typically do the same thing. But then I make sure to set aside time to wind down. If I do find myself needing to work right up until the second I sleep, I turn the brightness down on my laptop, play soothing music, and drink tea while I work. That way I’m at least calming my mind and body to some degree.

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  13. Sarah Lindner says

    August 17, 2020 at 7:25 AM

    I’ll admit winding down for the night has not been easy, so I will take any tips I can get! xoxo, Sarah

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:32 AM

      I sure hope that some of these help you!

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  14. Deborah says

    August 17, 2020 at 10:09 AM

    Great tips! This pandemic has really affected my sleep schedule because my anxiety has gotten pretty bad. I really need to be better at removing all screens from my room when I go to bed!

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:33 AM

      I relate! I was barely getting more than 2 hours of sleep each night for a little while, because I didn’t stick with my routine. Once I got back to the habit of not watching TV up until bedtime, or staring at my phone, or even working – it evened out a lot!

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  15. Rach says

    August 17, 2020 at 10:50 AM

    Reading before bed definitely has helped me get a better good night sleep! Your tips are so helpful and for sure will want to try them out. I know I need a better bedtime routine!

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    • Stephanie Whitman says

      August 17, 2020 at 11:34 AM

      I will always, ALWAYS suggest reading before bed. It’s such a great way to redirect your mind and relax!

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  16. Ellie says

    August 17, 2020 at 5:05 PM

    Great tips! A bath definitely helps me get to sleep πŸ™‚

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  17. Darby says

    August 17, 2020 at 8:01 PM

    These are great tips! I rarely have sleep problems but I never know what to do when I do have issues falling asleepβ€”now I do! Thanks for sharing!

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  18. Nicole says

    August 17, 2020 at 10:00 PM

    These are such great tips, I absolutely love listening to instrumental music at night it’s one of my favorite things to do.

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  19. Ana De- Jesus says

    August 18, 2020 at 8:25 AM

    I like the idea of taking a nice warm bath with Epsom salts to relax and detox as well as using essential oils to unwind. Plus journaling is a great way to get a better night’s sleep as well!

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  20. Kayla says

    August 18, 2020 at 11:35 AM

    I also have struggles falling asleep at night and journaling is the last thing I do before I get into bed to go to sleep! I love doing it, it’s so relaxing and it’s nice to have something to spill your thoughts and feelings out to of the day’s events. I’ve never tried the Headspace app but I’ve heard many good things about it, so I’m seriously considering it! I currently use the Calm app since I have a free trial, but I don’t know if I’ll be able to stick with it once the trial ends due to its kind of pricey subscription fee. These were very helpful ideas, thank you for sharing!

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  21. Lisa says

    August 18, 2020 at 2:28 PM

    Some lovely tips here, Stephanie. I like having a warm (not hot) shower before bed when I can (I get bored in the bath!) and diffusing essential oils such as lavender and geranium are very soothing. I also find reading a paperback (not Kindle) for 30 minutes before lights out is hugely helpful, it gives my unconscious brain a chance to stop whirring! Lisa

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  22. Kelly says

    August 18, 2020 at 4:15 PM

    Great tips! My mom struggles with insomnia (her mind doesn’t ever shut off of work), but I’m notoriously known to be able to fall asleep at any second, anywhere. πŸ™‚

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  23. Yolanda says

    August 19, 2020 at 7:44 AM

    Great tips. I have to start taking a bath before bed as that’s so relaxing! Another thing I like to do is go for a quiet walk with my dog at night. The little bit of exercise makes me rest better at night and wake up less. Having a relaxing routine is so important for the next day too!

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  24. Krissy says

    August 19, 2020 at 1:38 PM

    I have struggled with insomnia for a long time and I have to say, these are all fantastic tips. Lavender essential oil has helped me so much! I’ve also found it extremely helpful to write out my to-do list for the next day. Great post! Very informative!

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  25. Lisa says

    August 19, 2020 at 5:50 PM

    Great ideas! I always find reading a physical book and practicing breathing exercises help me the most. I think I need to try journaling about my day too.

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  26. Amanda says

    August 20, 2020 at 7:03 PM

    So many great tips! I try to unplug before bed (sometimes unsuccessfully– whoops!) and I do notice I sleep better if I take a shower before bed (not one for baths) and diffuse lavender oil. I can definitely do better with a bedtime routine!

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  27. Ana De- Jesus says

    August 21, 2020 at 8:00 AM

    Getting a good night’s sleep is something that I struggle with so thank you for this helpful reminder! I love the idea of writing a schedule the day before and also detoxing from screens as this is something that I have tried to do recently.

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  28. Kileen says

    August 27, 2020 at 3:13 PM

    These are such great tips for a better night’s sleep! I agree that journaling is a big help because I feel I can do a brain dump of whats on my mind and I fall asleep faster! Thanks for sharing these!

    Kileen
    cute & little

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  29. Ffi Mind Over Meds says

    September 5, 2020 at 7:52 AM

    Great post that covers everything. I’m always looking for ways to improve my quality of sleep and wake up more energised. I agree with all your tips here. I love taking a long hot bath before I go to bed. Washing away the stress of the day ready for a fresh day the next day!

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The hardback version of THE INVISIBLE LIFE OF ADDIE LARUE has a gorgeous spine with and without the dust jacket 🀩 I remember practically drooling when I finally saw it in person πŸ™ˆ 
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A friend asked me the other day how I found myself enjoying fantasy and I told her that it started when I read THE CHRONICLES OF NARNIA with my family at 6 years old 🦁 It was a popular genre on the bookshelves in our home, so it came as no surprise that a few years later I was picking up THE HOBBIT and THE LORD OF THE RINGS πŸ’ I never really knew life without fantasy novels and I'm really grateful for the fact that my parents always encouraged my desire to read as many books from as many different genres as I could get my hands on πŸ“š
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What are your ultimate ESCAPE reads? 🌌
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One of the reasons I love fantasy so much is because it is the furthest thing from reality! πŸ‰ Since reading IS my escape, I appreciate books that take me somewhere else entirely - another world, another dimension, somewhere magical πŸ’«
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Some of my favorite escape reads are:
♠️ CARAVAL - Remember, it's only a game... or is it? 
✨ THE STARLESS SEA - Follow the clues: a bee, a key, and a sword.
πŸ— THE TEN THOUSAND DOORS OF JANUARY - Secret doors written into existence. 
πŸ¦‹ STRANGE THE DREAMER - A moth, light upon the brow, can transport you into the dream.
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Honestly, just typing out these titles gave me a little shiver of delight because I just love them all so much! πŸ₯Ί Have you read any of them? πŸ“š 
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I'm not at all a fan of the real "bad boy" in the stories I read, though I don't mind a tougher exterior with a kind heart 🀎 I've always preferred sweeties, so my favorite "cinnamon roll boys" are: 
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πŸ’ƒπŸ½ Xavier from INSTRUCTIONS FOR DANCING
⭐️ Augustus from THE FAULT IN OUR STARS
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What was the last book you read based on a booksta What was the last book you read based on a bookstagram recommendation? πŸ’¬
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A lot of the titles I've picked up in the last year have been influenced by bookstagram πŸ“± I feel like I'm adding a new book to my Goodreads TBR on a daily basis, thanks to all of you! πŸ™ˆ A few months back, I read These Violent Delights, and while it definitely made me squirm (I don't do well with... some of the topics [redacted because of spoilers haha] πŸ₯΄), it was fun to notice what others enjoyed about it as I read! πŸ“–
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The audiobook I finished today was a booksta pick: The Ten Thousand Doors of January - and I enjoyed it thoroughly 🎧 It reminded me so much of The Starless Sea ✨ Have you read any of the books I mentioned? πŸ“– 
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Do you enjoy reading classic literature? 🀎
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I'll admit, I've never been the *biggest* fan of classics πŸ™ˆ I feel as though that's an abomination for a bookworm, but it's just the truth 🀭 My exceptions are anything by Louisa May Alcott (specifically Jo's Boys), The Chronicles of Narnia, and Anne of Green Gables πŸ“š I think I enjoy these because they're nostalgic for me - they're the books I grew up with πŸ’πŸ»β€β™€οΈ
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I found this stunning, vintage copy of the first three Anne volumes in one at Goodwill for $3 and snatched it up right away 😍 I love the worn look to it and the way it smells πŸ‘ƒπŸΌ
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Have you read any of the novels I mentioned? πŸ“– [Photograph taken prior to Luna's procedure] 
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Do you have any rereads planned for this year? πŸ“š
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I found myself stating, "I need to read that again," on a regular basis, so I put together a list of some of the books and series I'd like to revisit in 2021 πŸ“ Now I really can't wait to dive into some old favorites and even different formats of recent reads πŸ“–
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RENEGADES is one of the first ones I added to my list because I flew through this trilogy in a week last year and I'd like to take my time with it when I reread so I can really indulge in the incredible story πŸ¦ΈπŸ»β€β™€οΈ I also added THE LUNAR CHRONICLES (on a Marissa Meyer kick, clearly) as well as some of my comfort reads from high school like PAPER TOWNS and DELIRIUM 😱
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Have you read any of the books I mentioned? 🀳🏻 
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Do you write down book quotes as you read them? πŸ“
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I don't like to mark my books in any way, but I do want to remember the quotes that impact me as I read ✍🏼 I'll update my Goodreads progress, jot down a note in my phone, or sometimes I'll even take photos of the book and "highlight" the photo πŸ˜‚
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One of my recent favorite quotes was this:
"Do you know how you live three hundred years? she says.
And when he asks how, she smiles. "The same way you live one. A second at a time." - The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue (aka quite possibly the most quotable book I've ever read) πŸ’«
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What are some favorite quotes from your recent reads? πŸ—― 
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Are there any books you've read that made you want Are there any books you've read that made you want to pick up a new (or old) hobby? πŸ’ƒπŸ»
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When I read Instructions for Dancing, it made me miss ballroom dancing, which is something I did for 3 years in high school! πŸ‘  I haven't danced like that in so long, but reading this inspired me to begin practicing some again (even if it's in my room, by myself πŸ˜‚)
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I absolutely loved every minute of what was yet another masterpiece by one of my forever favorite authors, @nicolayoon 🀍 So thankful that I was able to read the ARC via @netgalley and I've already pre-ordered the physical copy to read again when it comes out in June! 🌸
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Have you read anything by Nicola Yoon (like Everything, Everything or The Sun Is Also a Star)? πŸ“š 
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Tell me about some of your favorite TRILOGIES πŸ“š Tell me about some of your favorite TRILOGIES πŸ“š
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Personally, I think that trilogies are the exact perfect length for a series (not too long, but not too short) πŸ™ˆ Maybe that's why some of my favorite books are part of trilogies! πŸ€” I was thinking about this so much that I actually wrote a full blog post about it last week and I'm now on the hunt to find more trilogies to add to my ever-growing list πŸ“
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Some of my forever favorites are:
πŸ’Œ TO ALL THE BOYS I'VE LOVED BEFORE
πŸ¦ΈπŸ»β€β™€οΈ RENEGADES
πŸŽͺ CARAVAL
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πŸ‡ΈπŸ‡¬ CRAZY RICH ASIANS
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