What is friendship, really? Some people would define it as someone you mutually share interests with, someone you talk with on a regular basis, or just a person that’s around for you when you need help. I see friendship as something so much more valuable. A friend to me is someone who you know you can call at three in the morning because your heart is broken, or at the same time because you found something that reminded you of them and you have to share it with them immediately. A true friend is there for you no matter how far away you are, whether things are going well in life or if they’re crappy, and someone who, once you’re reunited, you know will fall right back into the way things were before. People frequently talk about long-distance relationships, but long-distance friendships take the back burner, and I, for one, am beyond grateful for mine.
Sarah and I met through Instagram over three years ago. I posted a picture of a bowl of fruit, and she commented saying how much she liked the same fruit. When I replied with “twins!” it only escalated from there when we realized we truly did have so much in common. The only problem? She lived in Switzerland, and I lived in the US. That’s only … a ten-plus hour flight … and a few thousand miles away, right? Well, thank goodness for technology (WhatsApp and Skype, in particular) giving us the ability to maintain a friendship over such a long distance. Through lots of texts, phone calls, voice messages, webcam chats, and care packages, we continued getting to know each other and becoming the best of friends until this past fall, when Sarah got to study abroad – on the East Coast.
Of course we had to take advantage of the short period of time where we shared a time zone, so she arranged a trip to visit me. Sarah had never experienced Thanksgiving, since it’s an American holiday, so she traveled from her school in Georgia up to Virginia for four days spent with my family and me. In those four (way too short) days, I laughed harder, smiled bigger, and enjoyed life even more than usual, just having her around. Goodness, just taking these photos was a task for B, because we couldn’t stop laughing every five seconds. Half of the shots were either blurry, or we had the most ridiculous faces! Oh, but I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Time spent with the girl I’ve called my twin for three years was so special.
This trip was something we believed was practically impossible – a complete unlikelihood, due to our distance – and it actually happened! Not only that, but we truly were just as much twins in person as we were via text. We constantly completed each other’s sentences or said things simultaneously. We reached for the same candy and laughed at the same jokes, and it was better than I ever could have imagined. Sarah will be my forever sister, though not related by blood. We’re twins at heart, and I will always cherish our friendship. What does friendship mean to you? Do you have someone in your life that just makes it even more wonderful to live? Tell me your stories!
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Samantha Mariko says
A true friendship wouldn’t be broken just because of a long distance relationship! I’ve had to deal with long distance friendships for over 4 years but many of them are still strong 🙂 loved this post!
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Stefanie says
this is such a cool story!! i know you’ve been looking forward to this for months so i’m so happy you all had a great time!! looks like a long lasting friendship ahead!!! xoxo
Samantha Mariko says
A true friendship wouldn’t be broken just because of a long distance relationship! I’ve had to deal with long distance friendships for over 4 years but many of them are still strong 🙂 loved this post!
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Josie says
This is such a beautiful story darling! You two definitely seem to be at ease with each other and in synch! It’s a good thing that with technology you were able to grow this relationship!
True friendship is priceless!
Bisous, Josie
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Hadasah Love | Style To Love says
Ahh these photos are amazing
Much love, Hadasah
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francesca says
that is so cool you met through insta!! you two are so cute
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Jo says
This is a such heartwarming post to read. I had tears in my eyes while reading it. What a beautiful friendship Sarah and you have established. I also have a very close friend who lives in a different continent but we chat pretty much every day (thanks to the technology nowadays) so hopefully one day I can share same beautiful story with you as you did with us. These images are stunning by the way.
xo,
Jo
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Thomas Falkenstedt says
It is so sweet you finally got to meet after all that texting, skypeing and what not back and forth. And I do have a twin soul I’ve met through Instagram out there too! I hope I won’t have to wait 3 years to meet her though as I wanna head over to the US right now, but it’s incredible how you from the very beginning feel like “wait, she’s just like me”.
I’m glad you were blessed to have her over for Thanksgiving and seeing you smile made me smile 🙂
xoxo
Thomas
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Taylor says
Seriously the best story EVER. It’s so hard to find good girl friends, so when you do find them it’s so important! Love that you guys met through Instagram, so cool how networking can bring you to some of the most amazing people! Loved this story and so happy you guys finally got to meet in person, you both look gorgeous!
xo.
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Stefanie says
this is such a cool story!! i know you’ve been looking forward to this for months so i’m so happy you all had a great time!! looks like a long lasting friendship ahead!!! xoxo
Helen Chik says
Can you girls be more adorable?! I just love how true friendships can still thrive even if you’re on different continents of the world! My best friends and I see each other once every 6 months or so and each time it feels like we’ve spent no time apart!
Such a beautiful post darling!
Helen xx
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Brandon says
Yayyyyyy! Miss you Sarah!
Megan says
Loved following this story! So happy for you both and all the friend I’ve made through blogging including you!
Christine Kong says
This is such a sweet post and I love reading about your friendship. Blogging has gifted me with friends too that I have never met yet just communicate and catch up over social media. And this post is proof that one day I will meet those friends as well. You two are truly adorable and inspiring! Xoxo, Christine
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Yuena Li says
Awwwww such a beautiful friendship!!
With love,
Yuena
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Morgan Klein says
This is such a great story!!!! I love it!!! You guys are adorable!
Oh to Be a Muse says
It’s so nice that your friendship started on Instagram and that it blossomed to something super real!
Iliana says
You MUST frame some of these!! They’re so sweet 💕 It’s so cute how you two met online are still friends!
Steph says
Loved reading about this story! You two are the cutest!!
– Steph
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Jo says
This is a such heartwarming post to read. I had tears in my eyes while reading it. What a beautiful friendship Sarah and you have established. I also have a very close friend who lives in a different continent but we chat pretty much every day (thanks to the technology nowadays) so hopefully one day I can share same beautiful story with you as you did with us. These images are stunning by the way.
xo,
Jo
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Thomas Falkenstedt says
It is so sweet you finally got to meet after all that texting, skypeing and what not back and forth. And I do have a twin soul I’ve met through Instagram out there too! I hope I won’t have to wait 3 years to meet her though as I wanna head over to the US right now, but it’s incredible how you from the very beginning feel like “wait, she’s just like me”.
I’m glad you were blessed to have her over for Thanksgiving and seeing you smile made me smile 🙂
xoxo
Thomas
http://www.thomasfalkenstedt.com/
Taylor says
Seriously the best story EVER. It’s so hard to find good girl friends, so when you do find them it’s so important! Love that you guys met through Instagram, so cool how networking can bring you to some of the most amazing people! Loved this story and so happy you guys finally got to meet in person, you both look gorgeous!
xo.
http://www.itswhatsin.com
Helen Chik says
Can you girls be more adorable?! I just love how true friendships can still thrive even if you’re on different continents of the world! My best friends and I see each other once every 6 months or so and each time it feels like we’ve spent no time apart!
Such a beautiful post darling!
Helen xx
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Megan says
Loved following this story! So happy for you both and all the friend I’ve made through blogging including you!
Christine Kong says
This is such a sweet post and I love reading about your friendship. Blogging has gifted me with friends too that I have never met yet just communicate and catch up over social media. And this post is proof that one day I will meet those friends as well. You two are truly adorable and inspiring! Xoxo, Christine
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Bethany Mclean says
Love this story! Sounds like such a great friendship!! BTW-these pictures are adorable!
XO
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Yuena Li says
Awwwww such a beautiful friendship!!
With love,
Yuena
http://youtube.com/simplyyue
Morgan Klein says
This is such a great story!!!! I love it!!! You guys are adorable!
Steph says
Loved reading about this story! You two are the cutest!!
– Steph
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Camille says
Awww this story was too adorable!
Atsuna Matsui says
This post was sooo cute! I remember you tweeting about this and just thought the story was so endearing. I’m glad you two got to meet up and you guys look so cute in these photos. Hope you guys had fun!
xoxo
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Deddeh Howard says
Aww you ladies look so cute together. I love seeing real friendships.
Sharon Wu says
Omg you gals are seriously BFF goals! So cute! Love all the photos and glad to see you had a lovely Thanksgiving! xo, sharon
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Laurelle says
What a sweet story!!! That’s amazing you guys finally got to meet 🙂
-Laurelle
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Darci says
Awww YAY been so eagerly waiting to read about this and SO happy to see it. This is just beautiful. The pictures are the cutest too, how much fun! I love friendship and its so amazing nowadays how technology and social media can bring so many people together. I am so happy to have met you through it, now to meet in real life! XO, Darci
Bernice says
Aw you ladies are so sweet! And to finally meet over thanksgiving is just perfect!
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Linh Dao says
This has to be the cutest thing I’ve read all day! thank you So much for sharing this! I love how beautiful your friendship turned out to be and you both look amazing in these photos! This remind me of my best friend and I, we’ve been doing long distance for soooo long now, since freshman year of college. We barely have time to talk but when we do, I love that we can just pick it up where we left off! So glad to hear you had a great time with her!
Linh
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Aiko Cunanan says
Aww I absolutely love these photos! Soo cute! You know it’s real when you can maintain a long distance friendship <3 hehe
xo,
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Danielle says
I LOVE your story and feel like I’m living vicariously through you because I was so excited to hear that you two finally got to meet in person after all of these years! Although short, I’m sure the time you spent together was so special.
xx, Danielle | Pineapple & Prosecco
Kathryn says
Okay this is the *coolest* story!! So so special that she could visit you over Thanksgiving and you two could meet face to face for the first time! You two look beautiful, I’m so happy you both could enjoy a fabulous weekend together.
Xx, Kathryn
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gracie says
I love how technology keeps our world feeling like a smaller place & lets us stay connected ! This is such a great story ! You are both so cute 🙂
xx, gracie
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Mariann Yip says
You guys are absolutely adorable! I am so happy you guys are close and can maintain the long distance friendship 🙂
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Hadasah Love (Style to Love) says
Love everything about this post! So cute!
Love, Hadasah Love
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Aiko Cunanan says
Aww I absolutely love these photos! Soo cute! You know it’s real when you can maintain a long distance friendship <3 hehe
xo,
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Bryanna says
No way! Over a bowl of fruit?! That’s so crazy and insanely amazing. I’m so glad she got to come visit you! Switzerland is so beautiful, so you should try to go see her! Oh my goodness, that would be amazing girl.
xoxo Bryanna | Coming in Clutch
Jenn Hanft says
This is such a beautiful story!!! It’s incredible that you guys met through instagram and instantly became the best of friends. I’m so glad that you were given this opportunity to finally meet in person!! Hope she had a wonderful first thanksgiving!! And each photo, blurry or not, represents everything! It tells a story and you two are the cutest. Cheers to many more future reunions <3
XO Jenn
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Kenzie says
I love Instagram for SO many reasons, but one of the main reasons is because of stories like this. How cool that you guys were finally able to meet!!
Hadasah Love (Style to Love) says
Love everything about this post! So cute!
Love, Hadasah Love
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Sarah says
What a great story! So happy you got to spend time together. You both look so giddy!
Kusum says
Awww you two are so gorgeous and cute together! Love your story and how cool is that, gotta love the internet world for such friendships and relationships!!
xx, Kusum | http://www.sveeteskapes.com
Jessica Dugan says
This is just the coolest story ever! It’s so fun seeing just how meaningful internet relationships can be!
-Jessica
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Jo says
Awww I love how you two met on Instagram! I think it’s absolutely wonderful and remarkable that you’ve connected and truly bonded through three years of never meeting each other until now. That’s a story I thought only existed in the movies and it’s awesome to hear it happens in real life!
xo, Jo
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Yasmin says
That’s so cool that you met through Instagram! Who knows how many people that app has brought together? I met a friend on that app who had just moved to my town, but didn’t know anyone else. She commented on my photo of a brunch place she had also been to. When we first met up we were both nervous the other person would turn out to be super crazy, but we clicked so well together. Unfortunately she moved away. But we still keep in touch, especially through Instagram 🙂
xx Yasmin
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Jo says
Awww I love how you two met on Instagram! I think it’s absolutely wonderful and remarkable that you’ve connected and truly bonded through three years of never meeting each other until now. That’s a story I thought only existed in the movies and it’s awesome to hear it happens in real life!
xo, Jo
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Lily says
This is just the cutest ever!! I love that you met on Instagram, that is just too too precious!!
Lily says
This is just the cutest ever!! I love that you met on Instagram, that is just too too precious!!
Fe Samaia says
awww this is such a cute story babe thank you for sharing! I totally relate cause my best friend and I lived for many years apart. She moved to the US before I did when I still lived in Brazil and we would write letters to each other cause there was no Facebook at the time lol 🙂
xoxo
Fe
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Samantha says
What a sweet post! I love this
xo,
Samantha
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Miki says
Aww, this is amazing! It’s the modern day pen pal, only as you said, better with Skype, Instagram and IM apps. 🙂 You two are so adorable! This is the sweetest. 🙂 It’s amazing how small the world seems when you bring two people across the globe together as besties like this. 🙂
Xo,
Miki
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marcy says
Aw such a cute post babe!!! Distance is not a problem no matter how many years and km you are away a real friend always sticks forever!!!
Love the pics!!
xo
Iliana says
You MUST frame some of these!! They’re so sweet 💕 It’s so cute how you two met online are still friends!
Kenzie says
I love Instagram for SO many reasons, but one of the main reasons is because of stories like this. How cool that you guys were finally able to meet!!
Darci says
Awww YAY been so eagerly waiting to read about this and SO happy to see it. This is just beautiful. The pictures are the cutest too, how much fun! I love friendship and its so amazing nowadays how technology and social media can bring so many people together. I am so happy to have met you through it, now to meet in real life! XO, Darci
Bernice says
Aw you ladies are so sweet! And to finally meet over thanksgiving is just perfect!
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Danielle says
I LOVE your story and feel like I’m living vicariously through you because I was so excited to hear that you two finally got to meet in person after all of these years! Although short, I’m sure the time you spent together was so special.
xx, Danielle | Pineapple & Prosecco
Bethany Mclean says
Love this story! Sounds like such a great friendship!! BTW-these pictures are adorable!
XO
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Jenn Hanft says
This is such a beautiful story!!! It’s incredible that you guys met through instagram and instantly became the best of friends. I’m so glad that you were given this opportunity to finally meet in person!! Hope she had a wonderful first thanksgiving!! And each photo, blurry or not, represents everything! It tells a story and you two are the cutest. Cheers to many more future reunions <3
XO Jenn
http://www.jennsemble.com
Mariann Yip says
You guys are absolutely adorable! I am so happy you guys are close and can maintain the long distance friendship 🙂
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Atsuna Matsui says
This post was sooo cute! I remember you tweeting about this and just thought the story was so endearing. I’m glad you two got to meet up and you guys look so cute in these photos. Hope you guys had fun!
xoxo
http://www.atsunamatsui.com
Sharon Wu says
Omg you gals are seriously BFF goals! So cute! Love all the photos and glad to see you had a lovely Thanksgiving! xo, sharon
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Deddeh Howard says
Aww you ladies look so cute together. I love seeing real friendships.
Laurelle says
What a sweet story!!! That’s amazing you guys finally got to meet 🙂
-Laurelle
http://www.bellebylaurelle.com
gracie says
I love how technology keeps our world feeling like a smaller place & lets us stay connected ! This is such a great story ! You are both so cute 🙂
xx, gracie
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Camille says
Awww this story was too adorable!
Linh Dao says
This has to be the cutest thing I’ve read all day! thank you So much for sharing this! I love how beautiful your friendship turned out to be and you both look amazing in these photos! This remind me of my best friend and I, we’ve been doing long distance for soooo long now, since freshman year of college. We barely have time to talk but when we do, I love that we can just pick it up where we left off! So glad to hear you had a great time with her!
Linh
http://xcapewithlinh.com
Kathryn says
Okay this is the *coolest* story!! So so special that she could visit you over Thanksgiving and you two could meet face to face for the first time! You two look beautiful, I’m so happy you both could enjoy a fabulous weekend together.
Xx, Kathryn
http://www.jassamineelaine.com
Bryanna says
No way! Over a bowl of fruit?! That’s so crazy and insanely amazing. I’m so glad she got to come visit you! Switzerland is so beautiful, so you should try to go see her! Oh my goodness, that would be amazing girl.
xoxo Bryanna | Coming in Clutch
marcy says
Aw such a cute post babe!!! Distance is not a problem no matter how many years and km you are away a real friend always sticks forever!!!
Love the pics!!
xo